TeethI’ll be the first to admit. I.hate.flossing. Absolutely hate it with a passion. First of all, my mouth is too small to reach my molars in the back. Having short fingers doesn’t help with flossing either. I could never get the floss around my fingers tightly while at the same time trying to wrap it around my tooth. Also, Achondroplastic dwarfs are prone to orthodontic issues. With the small mouth and normal sized teeth, it gets crowded and teeth are forced up against each other, which leads to tight spaces between the teeth to floss. All of these factors make it very discouraging to floss well and often.

Our son didn’t have any teeth until after age 1, probably due to having Failure To Thrive. In any case, his geneticist told us from the beginning to keep on top of his overall health. The Early Intervention program helped by offering health clinics free of charge like vision and dental screening. That’s where we learned dental hygiene techniques for young children, whether or not they had a disability. We use these techniques even today with the kids being ages 7 and 3.
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Some thoughts from an LP adult perspective . . .

It is okay if your child does not have access to a disabled placard. There are many LP adults whose parents did not have a disabled placard to use when we were young. In fact, there are some LP adults who don’t have a placard because they don’t want to live a life with special adaptations, which is awesome. Any kid has to learn early to be aware of our surroundings, not to walk away from our parents’ car when in the parking lot, hold someone’s hand, and always wait before crossing. Having a disabled placard should not be a right that’s misused. And an infant with dwarfism who cannot walk yet does not need a disabled placard.
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Call me the dwarfism and disability rights crusader for my son’s school. First, there was a call to action against a charter school placed on our campus. Then, there was a call to action for air conditioning to be placed in our area schools. Often, PTAs will send out template letters for parents to send to the school board. Instead of just copying and sending the template letter, I like to use that letter as a big red flag to say: I’m a parent of a child with dwarfism! Here is your Dwarfism Awareness educational moment!

This is a letter I wrote to the school board members to demonstrate the effects of not having air conditioning at our schools (the name of the school proposition has been changed):

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I recently started a new job at a large profitable company with established ergonomic procedures and budgets. At my last job, I had never been offered any sort of special accommodation to get a chair that fit me besides offering a foot rest . It was plainly obvious upon starting my job that the standard office chairs, while a nice chair, would not suit my needs as it was way too deep.

Finding the Right Task Chair

After the obligatory ergonomic eval for new hires, the ergonomist said she would order me a petite task chair that would most likely fit me well. I waited a few weeks and the new chair showed up. Not surprisingly, it did fit better, but I was unable to sit back and have my legs bend at the knee. Many little people order the Adaptive Living ErgoChair online to solve this problem, but it’s very expensive fully decked out and is not the most attractive chair out there. Dwarf Mom had one of these chairs at her last job (unfortunately they didn’t let her take it home after she no longer worked there).

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Our school district representatives informed parents and faculty that they will recommend our elementary share its school site with a K-8 charter school.  This would add 180 non-community students to our school site. The charter school would take 11 classroom spaces and share our common areas including the cafeteria, auditorium, and playgrounds. If the school board approves this recommendation, we will be the only school offered as a potential site to share space with this charter school.

Here is a letter I wrote to a school board member to demonstrate the effects of adding a charter school onto our campus (the name of the school has been changed):

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Potty Training is always a hair-raising experience. And from our experience, you might think your child is potty trained until you are on that long road trip in the middle of the desert. Our kids just can’t seem to give us enough notice to make it to the potty. We found a few life-savers that we always bring in the car, especially on road trips. And we’re confident that once you try them, you’ll be thankful for these items as well.

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Achon HandsWhat if you could take a pill to make your achondroplasia go away? No more risk of spinal or foramen magnum compression. The chances of central and obstructive sleep apnea would be less. And there wouldn’t be that bothersome task of finding a bike helmet to fit. Would you take that pill? If it would lessen your child’s chances of social and health struggle, would you consider giving it to them? Well, BioMarin is in the process of developing a drug that could change achondroplasia (FGFR3) completely. BMN-111 is in clinical trials right now.

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Some of us tend to run generally hot, whether it be genetics, weight, or a lot of hair! We’ve heard many stories about LP kids who sweat like crazy while they’re sleeping which can be alarming for new parents. If you’ve never had a ceiling fan installed in the bedroom, we highly recommend you consider this for your children (and your master bedroom!)

Why Ceiling Fans Are Great

  • Ceiling fans keep you comfortable by moving air across your skin, increasing evaporation of sweat and leaving you feeling cool.
  • Ceiling fans are very low cost to run, especially compared to the cost of Air Conditioning.
  • Depending upon the speed you run your fan at, it may produce a gentle white noise effect which can be calming while you sleep.
  • Many ceiling fans have a built-in light so they can help brighten up a dark room.
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We recently purchased a Honda Odyssey minivan to support our family. While we love the vehicle, Honda unfortunately does not offer running boards anymore for the Odyssey. We were able to find aftermarket running boards that are made for the Odyssey, and even better, Honda will reimburse us for the purchase! Some of the automobile manufacturers have Mobility Assistance programs to help reimburse costs related to vehicle modifications due to disabilities. We encourage you to check out these programs and keep them in mind when purchasing a new vehicle.

You can use many of these programs to get reimbursed for pedal extensions on your new vehicle!

Here is a list of the programs that we know about:

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When my husband and I were planning to get pregnant, there was the question of double dominancy for heterozygous dwarfism. My husband has pseudoachondroplasia and I have achondroplasia. We were told why take the risk and even TRY for children if there is a chance of health issues or being incompatible with life. And we felt, why not try? Don’t get me wrong. Talking to our geneticist and OB/GYN definitely got us rattled. But, I was determined to find the answers. In my own research, I found a handful of people with both the pseudo and achon genes who are living a productive, healthy life. Most of them had only a couple of health problems, which was fewer than our son who only has one dwarfism gene. I interviewed these LP adults who were either carriers of both genes or whose child was a carrier of both genes. All of them said that they had the same common surgeries of pseudos or achons. By the time we got pregnant, I distinctly remember a young genetic counselor having a serious talk with us about our pregnancy. She had this solemn look on her face as she went over the punnett square. We smiled and said to her we already knew the probabilities. Coincidentally, our childhood geneticist had walked in to consult with us. When she walked into the room, she smiled and assured the counselor, “They know their stuff.”

We could’ve had amnio done with both children, but we thought the risk was too high to endanger the baby. And what would we do with that information? Ending the pregnancy was out of the question. We felt we would just deal with it once the babies were born. With our son, the ultrasound results showed he was definitely achon (head, trident, etc.), but we weren’t sure if he also had the pseudo gene. We didn’t care and just went forward without further in utero tests. When we got pregnant with our daughter, her ultrasounds didn’t show achon features. But, we knew that pseudos are not diagnosed until 2-3 yo., which was when my husband got diagnosed. When I gave birth to my daughter, we saved the cord blood to do the genetic test. Though we could have looked for the COMP gene, it would be more accurate to match the cord blood against my husband’s blood since he doesn’t show “classic pseudo” features as Dr. Jacqueline Hecht noted. He more resembles MED due to his height and hand features. There was no match for the gene with our daughter. We didn’t care whether or not our children had any dwarfism or the fact that she is Average Height. We just wanted to know without harming the baby with a blood draw. We have a blog entry that talks about genetics.

Some geneticists experienced in dwarfism say that heterozygous dwarfisms (two different dominant genes like achon and pseudo) ARE considered high risk (more health complications, possibility of still birth, etc.) and some say it is not a risk. I know of children with two different dwarfism genes (heterozygous) and one of them is living and healthy. The other had many health complications and passed before the age of 5. But, I never asked that parent what the cause of death was. The LP mom was a friend of mine, who unexpectedly passed within the year.

Is MED and Pseudoachondroplasia considered lethal? From talking to geneticists on LPA’s Medical Advisory Board (MAB) and those who have followed us throughout our lives (experience w/ dwarfism, but not on the MAB), MED and pseudo have similar genetic traits. I don’t know if that would be conisidered homozygous dwarf genes or heterozygous dwarf genes. My husband does not resemble the classic pseudo. That is why we had our children’s blood matched directly with his instead of looking for the COMP gene. If you are even the slightest interested in knowing the baby’s type of dwarfism, you could just save the cord blood and do the genetic test this way. I did this when my daughter was born.

In conclusion, there are several means of determining whether a child has dwarfism. But, the question is: What would you do with that information?

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